Situationships can mess with your heart and mind because they are like grasping at the wind. They give you the sense that you are with someone when really, you are just grasping at air with nothing tangible in your hands. There is wisdom for dealing with situationships and relationships, so you aren’t repeating empty circles. In "Lessons from my Situationship Adventures", Hephzibah helps you through her own personal experience, not to go around in circles, finding yourself in the same spot year after year with no progress made in your love life. If you put the wisdom you learn here to work, hopefully you will be better for it, entering into a healthy relationship leading to an end goal clearly defined to both you and your partner at the end of it all.